BECOME NATURALLY
ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN:
Here's Exactly How Regular Guys Like You Make Beautiful Women Sexually Obsessed - Without Looks, Money, or Status
Below are select excerpts from The Uncensored Session—a groundbreaking dating and seduction guide that unveils never-before revealed insights about women, dating, attraction and seduction that you won’t find anywhere else.
Every question you’ve ever had about women, every frustrating situation you’ve faced, and every confusing pattern you’ve encountered—it’s all addressed here.
This guide is the result of years of careful documentation and real-world experience, meticulously compiled into a system that takes you from core principles to actionable strategies, giving you the clarity and tools to succeed.
Dive into the excerpts below and see how The Uncensored Session has transformed the dating lives of countless men, making it the most effective, impactful and complete dating and seduction guide in its field.
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Student: Coach, I’ve got to be honest. I’m beyond skeptical. I’ve tried everything under the sun – from memorizing cheesy pickup lines that made me cringe, to devouring self-help books that collected dust on my nightstand, even those over-the-top seminar where I felt like a circus clown. Nothing’s worked.
I’m at my wit’s end. What makes your approach any different?
Coach: (chuckles) Let me tell you what’s already running through your head. You’re thinking ‘Here we go again, another guru with all the answers.’ Am I right? And why wouldn’t you be skeptical? You’ve probably heard every piece of advice out there.
“Just be yourself!” – as if you haven’t been doing that your whole life.
“Focus on your career, women love successful men!” – yet here you are, climbing the corporate ladder and still single.
“Dress better, get in shape!” – because apparently, a new wardrobe and look is all it takes to make women go nuts.
“Work on your confidence!” – without anyone telling you what that even means…
Did I hit the mark?
Student: Yeah, pretty much…
Coach: And I bet you’ve fallen down the YouTube rabbit hole, haven’t you? Those smooth-talking coaches who promise the world if you just buy the right cologne or dress like you’ve stepped off a movie set?
Or what exactly to text, say or do. What haircut to get, how to train your jaw so you look more masculine…
Student: I hate to admit it, but yes, I have.
Coach: And how’s that working out for you?
Student: (sarcastically) Oh, just great. I’m drowning in dates. Can’t you tell? Honestly, it’s been a nightmare. I feel like I’m wearing an invisibility cloak around women I’m attracted to. And on those rare occasions when I do manage to stumble into a date?
It fizzles out faster than a cheap firework. One or two meetups, max. I’m constantly walking on eggshells, second-guessing every word, every move. It’s exhausting, you know? I constantly feel unsure about how to approach and deal with women…
Coach: I understand. One of the big reasons so many men feel like you do, is because they are unsure when it comes to dealing with women, is that they do not understand what they are actually dealing with. They’re fumbling in the dark when it comes to women. They’re trying to solve a puzzle without even knowing what picture they’re supposed to be creating.
Student: Huh? What do you mean by that?
Coach: You’re an actor thrown onto a stage without a script, expected to nail your performance. Terrifying, right? That’s exactly what’s happening here. You see, we humans, we’re always unsure of ourselves when we’re dealing with the unknown. It’s hardwired into our DNA.
But here’s the kicker – not knowing how to deal with women, that’s not really YOUR fault.
Why? Because everything you’ve been taught about attracting women is dead wrong. And I mean dead wrong, like trying to put out a fire with gasoline wrong.
It’s not about clever pickup lines that make you sound like a walking Hallmark card. It’s not about padding your bank account or sculpting yourself into some Hollywood heartthrob – it never was! What really matters is the things that women respond to on a primal, gut level. Things that so deeply ingrained in our nature that most guys completely miss them.
Student: You’ve got my attention. What exactly do you mean?
Coach: You ever seen one of those nature documentaries? The ones where they show animals in the wild, doing their mating dances and whatnot?
Student: Yeah, sure.
Coach: Well, guess what? Humans aren’t that different. We’ve got our own mating dance, so to speak. But here’s the real shocker – most guys? They’re doing the dance all wrong. It’s like they’re trying to tango at a square dance.
Because of all the nonsense they’ve been fed, all the misguided advice and societal pressure, they’re out there trying to impress women with what I call “fancy feathers” – you know, flashing their money around like it’s going out of style, bragging about their job titles, or obsessing over their appearance. “Look at my fancy feathers! Look at my expensive watch! Look at my LinkedIn profile!”
Student: What do you mean by “all the misguided advice and societal pressure”?
Coach: Society’s been force-feeding you a truckload of bull about what women want. You know all those dating gurus on YouTube, those reality TV shows that are about as real as a three-dollar bill, those glossy magazines promising to unlock the secrets of the female mind? They’re selling you snake oil, my friend. Pure and simple.
The “misguided advice and societal pressure” I’m talking about? It’s all that surface-level garbage – the pickup lines that sound like they were written by a malfunctioning AI, the fashion tips that make you look like you’re trying way too hard, the cologne recommendations that could choke a horse.
It’s like they’re teaching you to be a fancy peacock, all show and no substance. But here’s the truth that’s going to flip your world upside down – women aren’t looking for peacocks. They’re looking for lions, for lack of a better term.
Think about it. All these “tricks” you’ve been learning? They’re like memorizing a few dance steps without understanding the rhythm of the music. You might look good for a hot minute, but as soon as the tune changes, you’re lost, stumbling around like a newborn giraffe.
What I’m offering? It goes way deeper than that surface-level nonsense.
Student: I’m listening… By the way, this is starting to make a weird kind of sense…
Coach: My approach? It’s about understanding the core of human nature. Once you get why people – especially women – act the way they do, you’ll stop fumbling around with memorized lines. You’ll be like a wolf leading the pack, sure-footed and certain.
And let me tell you, when you tap into that primal level of attraction, when you become the kind of man who naturally draws women in?
It’s like flipping a switch. Suddenly, you’re not chasing anymore. They’re coming to you, drawn by something they can’t quite put their finger on but can’t resist.
Once you understand what they respond to on a primal level, everything changes. Imagine walking into a room and just knowing – not hoping, not guessing, but knowing – exactly what makes women tick. Imagine being able to create attraction naturally, without second-guessing yourself or running through mental checklists.
I’m talking about developing such a deep understanding of female psychology that attraction becomes as natural as breathing.
Student: Primal level? What do you mean?
Coach: I’m talking about tapping into instincts that have been hardwired into women’s brains for millions of years. Not what they SAY they want… Not what they even THINK they want… Not even what they BELIEVE they want… But what they actually RESPOND to! On a primal, instinctual level.
Student: Ha! I heard that one before…
Coach: Yeah? You did? Why are you still here then? If you really did, and if it worked, why are you still searching for the answers?
Student: Shit, you got the point.. So, do you really think you can teach me to do that, once and for all?
Coach: No, I don’t think, I know.
I’ll give you practical, field-tested techniques grounded in human psychology. These aren’t gimmicks – they’ve worked for thousands of men. But here’s the catch – you’ve got to be willing to rewire how you think about yourself and women. It ain’t always comfortable. In fact, it’ll challenge everything you believe about dating and relationships.
Student: I don’t know… That sounds like a lot. What exactly are we talking about here?
Coach: We’re talking about becoming the kind of man who naturally attracts women without tricks or gimmicks, and without relying on his money or his looks.
Student: (intrigued) That… actually sounds pretty good. How can I be sure this will work?
Coach: Let me put it this way. Are you happy with your dating life right now?
Student: (sighs) No, not at ALL!
Coach: I’m offering you a chance to pull back the curtain, to see what’s really going on beneath all the surface-level dating advice. I’m talking about becoming the kind of man that women dream about—the man they would do anything for, even cheat with on their husbands, and go to great lengths to be with.
Not through tricks or manipulation, but by understanding and embodying what women are naturally, instinctively drawn to.
Look, I get it. You’ve been burned before. Every new approach promises the world and delivers nothing. But ask yourself this – is what you’re doing now working? Are you willing to spend the next five, ten, twenty years stuck in the same frustrating patterns? Because that’s what happens when men don’t understand these fundamental truths about attraction.
Student: Alright, you’ve got my attention. Where do we start?
Coach: We start by breaking down what attraction really is. And fair warning – it’s probably not what you think. Are you ready to have your mind blown?
Student: (takes a deep breath) Alright, Coach. I’m in. Just one thing—can you help me get out of the friendzone too?
Coach: Absolutely. But with what you’ll learn, the friendzone won’t even be an issue for you anymore.
Student: And…what about getting my ex back?
Coach: Once you understand this, you won’t need to worry about that. In fact, if you ever do break up, it’ll likely be because you made that choice.
Student: Alright, Coach. Let’s do this.
Student: Let’s do this.
Coach: That’s what I like to hear… Alright. This is where your life changes. We’re not just gonna rewrite what you know about women and attraction – we’re gonna set fire to that old rulebook.
By the time we’re done, you’ll see right through all the games, all the bullshit. You’ll understand what makes women tick on a primal level.
And here’s the kicker – you’re gonna become the kind of man that women can’t help but want. Not because of some cheap tricks or gimmicks, but because you’ll embody what they’re hardwired to desire. You won’t just know the rules of the game – YOU WILL be the one setting them.
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"Women love relationships, but they don't need YOU for that. They have girlfriends for emotional support. They need you to provide them with good s*x and leadership."
✅️ In this chapter:
Finally understand the primal triggers that create genuine female attraction – and it’s not what you think. Forget about money, looks, or status.
You’ll learn the biological and psychological foundations of what actually makes women desire men, giving you the power to create genuine attraction regardless of your circumstances!
Attraction: What Really Makes Her Want You
Student: So, what is attraction really about? Like, is it all just about how people look? How hot they are on a scale of 1 to 10?
Coach: No, it’s not just about looks, especially not for women. There’s a whole universe of factors swirling beneath the surface. We’re talking about primal instincts that have been shaping our species since we were swinging from trees. Want me to peel back the layers for you?
Student: Yes, please. I’d like to understand it better.
Coach: Attraction, is not a choice. Attraction is like this gut-punch feeling we’ve had hardwired into us since our ancestors were dodging sabertooth tigers. It’s as automatic as your mouth watering when you smell fresh-baked pizza or your heart racing when you hear a twig snap in a dark forest. You don’t think about it, it just hits you like a freight train. And get this – it’s been the secret sauce keeping our species thriving for millions of years. Do you ever try to force yourself to like a food you hate?
Student: No, I mean… you either like something or you don’t, right?
Coach: Exactly. We don’t consciously decide what traits attract us sexually or who we’re attracted to. It’s an emotion, not a conscious decision. It’s like trying to choose which foods make your stomach growl. We don’t sit down with a checklist and logically decide, “Hmm, yes, I think I’ll be attracted to fit brunettes today.” It’s an emotion that floods your system faster than you can blink. Pure, raw, unfiltered feeling.
Student: But here’s what I don’t get – why do guys and girls seem to be turned on by totally different things?
Coach: It all boils down to millions of years of biological fine-tuning. Men and women? We’re like two puzzle pieces, evolved to fit together in ways that kept our ancestors alive. Males and females have evolved to be attracted to different, complementary qualities in each other due to their different roles in reproduction.
Student: Hold on, I’m not sure I follow. What exactly are these differences you’re talking about?
Coach: For men, it’s like we’ve got these ancient eyeballs that zero in on physical signs screaming “healthy baby-maker!” We’re talking smooth skin that glows like it’s lit from within, faces so symmetrical you could split them down the middle like a mirror image, youthful features that radiate vitality, and body shapes that practically shout “I can carry and nurture a child!”
Student: And women? What are they attracted to in men?
Coach: Here’s where it gets interesting. Women? They’ve got a different radar altogether. They’re picking up on… (chapter continues)
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"Women aren't testing your worth. They're testing if you question your own worth."
✅️ In this chapter:
You’ll learn how society systematically conditions men to suppress their natural masculine traits – the very qualities women find most attractive.
You’ll see how everything from education to entertainment has trained you to act in ways that kill attraction. You’ll discover how to break free from this conditioning and reclaim your natural masculine power.
The Hidden Ways Society Weakens Men
“The ultimate paradox: the less you need a woman’s approval, the more desperately she’ll crave yours.”
Student: Sure, but first, if these traits are so important, why don’t all men naturally display them?
Coach: Because from the moment you’re born, society starts softening you up. And it happens so gradually that most men don’t even realize it.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Think about when you were a little kid. Remember how freely you expressed yourself? Look at any young boy at home – climbing trees even when told it’s dangerous, play-fighting with friends, trying to protect his little sister, wanting to be a superhero who saves the day. At family gatherings, watch how little boys naturally take charge of other kids’ games, make up their own rules, challenge their older cousins. Even at the playground before school age – they run wild, take risks, compete with each other without apology.
Now think about what happened once you started school. Remember that kid – maybe it was you – who’d stand up and say “This is boring” during class, or challenge the teacher when something didn’t make sense? The one who’d start fun activities at recess without asking permission? What did teachers call him?
Student: A troublemaker usually. Disruptive.
Coach: Right. And what about the boy who sat quietly with his hands folded, never speaking unless called on? Look at how “good boys” act everywhere – at church sitting perfectly still, at family dinners speaking only when spoken to, at parties waiting to be invited to play instead of jumping in. The kid who’d ask “May I please go to the bathroom?” instead of just saying he needed to go? The one who never argues with adults, never challenges authority, never causes any trouble? What did everyone call him?
Student: He was the “good” kid.
Coach: From day one, you learn that taking charge gets you sent to the principal’s office. That raising your hand to answer questions is “showing off.” That challenging ideas makes you a “troublemaker.” That pursuing girls makes you a “distraction.” Year after year, this shapes you. Every time you show natural masculine energy, you get punished.
Every time you act passive, you get rewarded. It’s like being slowly domesticated, trained to suppress your natural instincts. And the worst part? It happens so gradually that by the time you’re an adult, this programmed behavior feels normal. It’s called social conditioning.
Student: Hold up, what do you mean by ‘social conditioning’? That sounds like some textbook stuff.
Coach: Our society often sends mixed messages about masculinity. Men are sometimes taught that being decisive or taking charge is “toxic,” or that putting yourself first is selfish. This can lead to confusion and hesitation in displaying these naturally attractive traits.
Let me give you some real examples. Remember when you were told not to be “too rough” during sports? Or when you got in trouble for play-fighting at recess? Or how about when you showed interest in a girl and the teacher made you apologize for “bothering” her?
These aren’t random rules – they’re systematic ways of teaching boys that their natural masculine behaviors are wrong. Men are encouraged to be “sensitive” and “polite” but discouraged from standing up for themselves or expressing strong opinions.
Student: I’m not sure I’m following. What’s this got to do with how guys act around women?
Coach: From a young age, boys are often taught to be “nice” in ways that actually undermine their attractiveness to women.
Student: How?
Coach: Well, think about how boys are often raised. They’re told to always defer to others, to avoid conflict at all costs, to never upset anyone – especially women. This conditions them to be overly agreeable and passive, which are actually feminine traits.
Student: I’m still confused. How does being taught to be nice screw guys up with women? Don’t women want to be with a nice man??
Coach: Here’s the thing that trips up most guys – there’s a huge difference between being a good man and being a “nice guy.” When women say they want a nice man, they mean someone who treats people how they want to be treated. For women specifically, this means making them feel… (chapter continues)
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"Your endless self-improvement is just another form of seeking approval. Real attraction starts when you stop trying to prove yourself."
✅️ In this chapter:
Finally break free from the myth that you need to be rich or look like a model to attract beautiful women.
Discover why so many wealthy, good-looking men struggle with women while “average” guys often date stunning women.
You’ll learn why focusing on looks and money actually makes you less attractive to women.
You’ll understand why these external factors are actually masking the real traits women respond to, saving you years of wasted time and money chasing the wrong things.
Stop being manipulated by industries profiting from your insecurities and learn what genuinely creates attraction.
Looks and Money: Do They Really Matter?
Student: Yes, we can but hold up… This is totally different from everything I’ve been hearing. Everyone keeps saying you need to be jacked or loaded with cash to get girls. Are you telling me that’s a load of crap?
Coach: Before I answer that, let me ask you something – where did you first hear that looks and money were the keys to attraction? What made you start believing this?
Student: Honestly, it’s everywhere—on Instagram, YouTube, even my friends say it. If you’re not good-looking or rolling in cash, you’re invisible to women. It’s hard not to feel discouraged, like what’s the point in even trying?
Coach: I notice something interesting in what you just said. You mentioned Instagram, YouTube, your friends… But have you noticed something? All these sources have one thing in common – they’re trying to sell you something. Either literally selling products, or selling you on their version of reality.
Student: Yeah, I guess… but it still feels real, you know? I’m just an average guy—no six-pack, no fancy cars. Makes me feel like I’ll never have a shot with women. Like the game’s rigged.
Coach: I completely understand that feeling. When you’re bombarded with these messages day after day, it starts to feel like truth. Every ad, every movie, every social media post hammering home the same message: abs, Lamborghinis, private jets. But here’s what they don’t want you to realize – they’re selling a solution to a problem they invented.
Let me share something that’s going to completely change how you see attraction.
Student: What’s that?
Coach: Something that goes against everything these influencers are trying to sell you: For men, being beautiful and being attractive are two completely different things. A man can be beautiful without being attractive to women, and he can be attractive without being beautiful.
Student: [frowning in confusion] Hold up… beautiful and attractive aren’t the same thing? How is that possible?
Coach: Think about it this way – have you ever seen a couple where the guy was average-looking but had a stunning girlfriend? Or maybe you’ve seen some male model type who can’t seem to keep a relationship? There’s a reason for that.
You see, women aren’t wired like men. When we see a beautiful woman, boom! Instant attraction. It’s like a lightning bolt – no thought required. That’s why the fitness industry, fashion magazines, and social media can sell us anything that promises to make us more visually appealing to women. They’re playing to our own instincts about attraction.
But women? [shakes head] Their attraction system runs on a completely different operating system. Their triggers are more about behavior than looks. That’s why you’ll see stunning women with guys who look like they just rolled out of bed – but these guys carry themselves with absolute certainty.
Student: [looking skeptical but interested] So what you’re saying is… for men looks don’t matter at all?
Coach: Not exactly. Think of it like a job interview. Having a nice suit might get you in the door, but if you can’t perform in the interview, that suit means nothing. Looking good is like that nice suit – it might create a good first impression, but it’s not what makes a woman stay attracted.
Let me give you a perfect example: male models or bodybuilders.
These guys are what society would call “beautiful” or, used incorrectly, “attractive”– perfect faces, chiseled bodies – everything the fitness magazines, Instagram and movies tell you women want. But many of them struggle with women (if they are not homosexual that is).
Want to know why?
Student: Why?
Coach: Because they’ve learned to be self-conscious. They’re constantly worried about their appearance, always checking themselves in mirrors, obsessing over every little flaw.
In other words, they’re displaying feminine behavior in a male body.
See, women are biologically programmed to care about their looks. It makes perfect sense – their… (chapter continues)
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"Women don't leave men who lead. They leave men who beg to be followed."
✅️ In this chapter:
Discover why the confidence you’ve been searching for isn’t hiding in luxury cars, expensive clothes, or high-status jobs.
Learn how society tricks you into believing external status symbols create attraction and why this belief keeps you stuck.
Understand why the most confident, attractive men often have nothing to prove and how you can adopt the same mindset.
Break free from the myth that you need something external to feel worthy and uncover the real source of your natural, magnetic attractivness.
The Great Deception: How Society Sells You Back Your Own Power
Student: But if what you’re saying is true, why do successful guys always seem to get the hottest women? I mean, just look at all those Instagram photos…
Coach: Interesting that you mention Instagram. Let me ask you something – when was the last time you saw an advertisement for a luxury car or expensive cologne?
Student: Just this morning actually. There was this cool commercial with this guy in a suit driving through the city at night…
Coach: And what happened in that commercial?
Student: Well, he pulls up to this fancy club in his car, walks in like he owns the place, and all these beautiful women notice him…
Coach: Did they talk about the car’s features? The engine specs? The safety ratings?
Student: [thinking] Actually… no. It was more about the lifestyle, I guess. But isn’t that just showing what happens when you’re successful?
Coach: Let’s dig deeper into what you just saw. What was that commercial really selling you?
Student: The car?
Coach: Really? Think about it – did they mention anything about the actual car? The horsepower, the fuel efficiency, the handling?
Student: No… it was more about how everyone reacted to him when he showed up in it.
Coach: Exactly. Now, let me ask you something else. Have you ever noticed how guys act differently after buying an expensive car?
Student: Yeah, my buddy Mark just got a new BMW. He’s been acting all cocky lately…
Coach: And how’s that working out for him with women?
Student: Actually… he has been getting more attention. So doesn’t that prove the car helps?
Coach: Here’s where it gets interesting. Is it the car getting him attention, or is it how he’s acting now that he has the car?
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Think about Mark before he got the BMW. Was he the same confident guy he is now?
Student: No, he was pretty shy actually. Always second-guessing himself…
Coach: And what changed? Did getting a BMW suddenly give him new social skills? New personality traits? Or did he just finally give himself permission to act attractive because he thought the car made him “worthy”?
Student: Permission?
Coach: Yes. The car companies aren’t selling you transportation – they’re selling you permission to feel confident, certain, to be yourself, to be attractive, to go after the things you want, to feel complete. This is how the whole system works.
They’re selling you the idea that once you have their product, you’ll finally be “worthy” enough to act like that guy in the commercial. But here’s the thing – that attractiveness, that certainty? You had access to that all along.
Student: Come on… you’re telling me a guy has the same chances with women whether he’s driving a BMW or a beat-up Honda?
Coach: Let me give you a better example. You know how some…(chapter continues)
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"Women don't fall for your mask - they fall for the man brave enough to drop it."
✅️ In this chapter:
You’ll discover how society’s “good boy path” – study hard, get good grades, climb the corporate ladder – is actually designed to suppress your natural attractiveness.
Learn why trying to “earn” female attraction through achievements and good behavior is exactly what’s making you invisible to women.
You’ll understand why waiting to feel “worthy” of women’s attention is the biggest trap keeping you from the dating success you want.
Break free from this manipulative social programming and discover how to access your natural attractive power without having to earn or prove anything to anyone.
Earning Affection: The Dangerous Myth
Student: What do you mean sinister?
Coach: Tell me something – growing up, what were you told about becoming a man who could attract a good woman?
Student: I’m not sure what you mean.
Coach: Think back. What did your parents, your teachers, society in general tell you about what you needed to do to be “worthy” of a good relationship?
Student: I guess… they always said I needed to focus on my education first. You know, “girls will come later, focus on your studies now.”
Coach: And what message did that send you?
Student: That dating and girls were some kind of… distraction? Something that could wait until later.
Coach: Exactly. And after your education, what were you told would happen?
Student: That once I had a good career, then I could think about dating and relationships.
Coach: And what exactly did they mean by a “good career”?
Student: You know, a respectable job. Something stable. Professional.
Coach: Keep going. What else were you told you needed?
Student: I guess… making good money, having my own place… showing I’m responsible and mature.
Coach: And then what? Once you had all that, then what did society promise would happen?
Student: That’s when I’d be ready to attract the right kind of woman. That’s when I’d be… worthy?
Coach: Now we’re getting somewhere. Notice how it’s always about the future? Always about what comes next? Let me ask you this – have you seen this actually work for anyone?
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Think about the guys you know who followed this path perfectly. Got the degree, got the career, got the status. Are women actually flocking to them?
Student: Well… now that you mention it… I know quite a few guys who’ve “made it” on paper, but they’re still struggling with dating. Some of them haven’t had a girlfriend in years.
Coach: Yet I bet you also know guys who don’t have any of that “success” but do great with women, right?
Student: Yeah… actually, there’s this guy at my gym. He’s a personal trainer, doesn’t make much money, lives in a tiny apartment. But women are always all over him.
Coach: Of course they are. Because here’s the dirty truth – society has been feeding you a lie. This whole “achievement path” to female attraction? It’s not about making you more attractive to women. It’s about controlling you.
Student: Controlling me? How?
Coach: Think about it. What’s the best way to get a young man to conform, to follow all the rules, to be a “good citizen”? Promise him that female attraction will be his reward. It’s the ultimate carrot on a stick.
Student: But why would society want to control men like that?
Coach: Because uncontrolled masculine energy terrifies the system. A man who follows his own path, who isn’t afraid to break the rules, who doesn’t care about status or approval – that man is dangerous to the established order. So instead, they domesticate you. Turn you into what I call a “good boy.”
Student: A good boy?
Coach: Yes. Study hard, get good grades, don’t make waves, follow the rules, climb the ladder, chase the corner office. Be patient, be proper, be polite. Don’t be too aggressive, don’t be too bold, don’t take too many risks. And if you do everything right, eventually you’ll be “worthy” of female attraction.
Student: But it doesn’t…(chapter continues)
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"Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners."
✅️ In this chapter:
At last, grasp why being “nice” and treating women equally actually kills sexual tension, while embracing authentic masculine traits ignites unstoppable desire.
You’ll gain a deep understanding of why women are instinctively drawn to certain male behaviors that society often labels as problematic or toxic.
By mastering these core principles of sexual polarity, you’ll naturally begin attracting women without having to fake or force anything.
Masculinity vs Femininity: The Essential Difference
Student: Okay, you keep talking about masculinity and femininity, but what’s the deal with that? I’m kinda lost here.
Coach: To start with, let’s go over something fundamental. Masculinity and femininity stem from biology and traditional reproductive roles, but they also shape how we relate to others and express ourselves.
At their core, masculinity and femininity reflect qualities that make males more “manly” and females more “womanly.” These traits have historically made each sex more appealing to the other, as they align with instincts deeply embedded in us over time.
Student: So, you’re saying these traits are about biology and attraction?
Coach: Exactly. While society and culture play a role in defining masculinity and femininity, their roots are in biology. Masculinity and femininity reflect the qualities that each gender traditionally brought to the table, making them a suitable partner.
Student: What exactly makes someone suitable?
Coach: When we talk about suitability, it comes down to traits that indicate a person’s fitness as a partner. For women, it’s primarily about physical traits that signal fertility and reproductive fitness – things like smooth skin, symmetrical features, and a figure that suggests health.
These are signals of health and vitality that have traditionally made women more appealing to men, as they indicate a higher chance of successful reproduction. But it’s not just about looks, also how this reproductive fitness is epxresses, mainly thoruhg vulnerability.
Student: What do you mean vulnerablty?
Coach: Vulnerability here refers to a kind of physical and emotional openness. Women’s bodies are naturally different from men’s in ways that reflect this theme of softness and vulnerability, both inside and out. On a physical level, women generally have softer skin, more body fat, and less muscle mass than men.
This higher body fat percentage helps support reproductive health, but it also gives a softer look and feel to the body. Muscles, bones, and skin in women tend to be less dense than in men, which makes them overall more delicate and physically vulnerable.
This softness isn’t just on the outside; it’s also about what’s happening inside.
Student: How so?
Coach: This softness doesn’t stop at the physical level; it also shapes how women tend to approach emotions and relationships. Women are often more attuned to empathy, connection, and understanding, which creates a kind of emotional and mental softness.
Student: But why are women more inclined toward empathy and connection?
Coach: Women’s tendency for empathy and connection likely developed over time due to physical vulnerability. Throughout history, women’s physical vulnerability made assertiveness or direct confrontation risky. In situations where physical strength determined safety, being too assertive could lead to danger.
Student: So they had to find different ways to handle challenges?
Coach: “Exactly. To navigate the world more safely, women developed strategies that emphasized harmony and understanding over confrontation. This meant focusing on building alliances, reading social cues, and approaching situations with patience and empathy.
Student: So they used more indirect methods to get what they needed?
Coach: Yes. This indirect approach to influence—prioritizing peace and connection—helped women create supportive environments, avoiding conflict and fostering trust. The combination of physical vulnerability, emotional sensitivity, and a passive, indirect approach to handling situations creates a distinctive style that’s often associated with femininity.
Student: Okay, so what about masculinity then?
Coach: So, let’s shift to masculinity. While femininity often focuses on expressing softness and openness, masculinity is about being a suitable male partner. Like femininity, it has two main components: being born male and being less vulnerable than females.
Student: Less vulnerable? What does that mean exactly?
Coach: I say “less vulnerable” because if I just said “strong,” that wouldn’t tell you much. Strong how? Strong physically? Mentally? Emotionally? The word “strong” is too vague and means different things to different people. But “less vulnerable” – that’s specific to the women you are dealing with. For instance…(chapter continues)
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"The moment you start explaining why you're attractive is the moment you become unattractive."
✅️ In this chapter:
Finally understand the single most attractive male trait that women are biologically programmed to respond to.
You’ll discover why waiting to feel confident is the biggest trap keeping you stuck, and why acting despite fear is what actually triggers primal female attraction.
This radical approach flips conventional dating advice on its head – revealing why your nervousness and uncertainty can actually become your greatest assets, once you understand how to channel them properly.
Armed with field-tested techniques, you’ll learn how to push through any hesitation, take action with women in any situation, and display the kind of raw courage that makes you magnetic to the opposite sex.
Stop letting fear control your dating life and start using it to create unstoppable attraction.
Courage: How to Build It From Nothing
Student: Okay, so how and where do I start if I want to become more masculine?
Coach: You start with the basics, by understanding the four traits: courage, dominance, charm, and internal locus of control. Let’s begin with courage since it’s the primary expression of masculinity.
Student: I’ve never thought of courage as being THAT important for masculinity. Why is it so crucial?
Coach: Let me explain why courage is so crucial. Think about it – what good is being strong if you’re afraid to use that strength? What’s the point of success if you’re too scared to make bold moves? You could be the most jacked guy at the gym or the richest guy in the room, but if you’re paralyzed by fear, women will sense that weakness instantly. Courage is what makes every other masculine trait count.
Student: How does courage specifically affect attraction?
Coach: Think about what makes a woman feel safe with a man. It’s not just his size or strength – it’s his ability to handle whatever life throws at him. Whether it’s dealing with an aggressive drunk at a bar or navigating a layoff at work, a courageous man stays calm and takes action while others panic.
That’s deeply attractive to women because it shows you can protect and provide no matter what happens. It’s hardwired into their DNA to respond to this – a man who can face uncertainty is a man who can keep her safe in an uncertain world.
Student: Wait, so you’re saying this goes beyond just being physically protective?
Coach: Now you’re starting to see the bigger picture. Think about real life – when does a woman most need protection? It’s rarely from physical threats. It’s when she’s stressed about losing her job, when her family is giving her grief, when life feels like it’s spinning out of control.
That’s when a man’s courage really matters. If you can stay calm and steady while everyone else is panicking, if you can face problems head-on instead of avoiding them – that’s what makes her feel truly safe. She knows that no matter what life throws at her, you’ve got the courage to handle it.
Student: Okay, but isn’t this just about being confident? I mean, all the dating advice I’ve read says you just need to be confident with women…
Coach: That’s a crucial distinction. Let me break it down for you. Confidence is a feeling – an internal state of assurance. But courage? That’s about what you do when you’re scared shitless. It’s about taking action even when you’re not sure how it’ll turn out.
Sometimes you might feel confident and act on that feeling, which is great. But there will be many times when you don’t feel confident at all. That’s where developing courage becomes essential.
When you cultivate courage, you’re training yourself to take action regardless of how you feel inside. This is powerful because it means you’ll always appear confident to others, even if you’re feeling unsure or nervous internally.
Remember, women can only respond to what they see – your actions and behavior. They can’t read your mind or know how you’re feeling inside. So when you act courageously, you’ll come across as confident, which is incredibly attractive.
By focusing on developing courage rather than just trying to feel confident all the time, you’re setting yourself up to be consistently attractive, regardless of your internal emotional state… (chapter continues)
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"Your PhD and six-figure salary mean nothing if you still ask permission to kiss her."
✅️ In these two chapters:
You’ll discover the crucial difference between being controlling and being a genuine leader – why one repels while the other creates magnetic attraction.
Master the art of commanding respect and attention without aggression or manipulation, learning how to create such a compelling reality that others naturally want to follow your lead.
This isn’t about forcing anyone to submit; it’s about becoming so grounded in your own worth that women are naturally drawn into your world.
Stop confusing domineering behavior with true dominance and start embodying the kind of masculine leadership that makes women feel safe, feminine, and irresistibly attracted.
Dominance: Leading Without Being a Jerk
“Dominance isn’t about controlling others, it’s about having such a strong sense of self that others naturally follow your lead.”
Student: We’ve talked about courage, but can we discuss dominance now? You mentioned it’s about creating a strong reality and pulling others into it. What exactly do you mean by that?
Coach: Absolutely. Dominance, in this context, is about having such a strong sense of self and reality that you naturally influence those around you. It’s not about forcing others to submit, but rather about being so grounded in your own worldview that others are drawn to it. But to do that effectively, you have to have high self-esteem and an unwavering grip on your own reality.
Student: Hold up, what exactly do you mean by ‘self-esteem’? That’s kinda vague.
Coach: Self-esteem isn’t some fluffy feeling – it’s your own opinion of yourself – how valuable you deem yourself to be. It’s not an emotion, but a decision you make about your own worth.
Student: But don’t other people’s opinions matter too?
Coach: Let me tell you something absolutely crucial – if you only remember one thing from our entire conversation, remember this: Your opinion of yourself must ALWAYS outweigh everyone else’s opinion of you. Always.
Student: Everyone’s? Like… everyone?
Coach: Everyone. Your parents, your friends, your boss, women you’re attracted to – doesn’t matter. The moment someone else’s opinion of you becomes more important than your own, you’ve lost your power. You’ve handed over control of your reality to someone else. Just like women, you have become submissive to someone else’s reality.
Student: What do you mean ‘just like women’?
Coach: Well, while men need to maintain their own strong reality, women are naturally more receptive to external opinions and feedback. Their sense of self is more fluid and interconnected with others’ views, especially from men they value and respect. It’s part of feminine nature to be more influenced by external validation – but as a man, if you operate this way, you’re acting against your masculine core.
Student: So women naturally care more about others’ opinions?
Coach: It’s more than just caring – their entire sense of self-worth tends to be more collaborative and influenced by those around them, particularly by men they respect. That’s why it’s crucial for you as a man to have an unshakeable reality. Your view of her becomes part of how she sees herself. If you’re constantly seeking validation and changing your reality based on others’ opinions, you’re displaying feminine energy instead of masculine strength.
Student: That sounds like a lot of pressure…
Coach: It’s not pressure – it’s power. It powerful to have your opinion of yourself ALWAYS outweigh everyone else’s opinion of you.
Student: That sounds kind of extreme…
Coach: Look at it this way – if you have 100 points of value to assign to opinions about you, at least 51 of those points MUST go to your own opinion. Others can share the remaining 49, but you must always hold the controlling interest in how you value yourself.
Student: But what about feedback? Aren’t we supposed to listen to others?
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"Women don't fall in love during dates. They fall in love between them, when they're alone with their thoughts of you."
Leadership: Taking Charge in Dating and Life
Student: Wait, so you’re saying if I do this, I’m basically running the show? You’re telling me this stuff actually puts ME in charge?
Coach: Damn straight. You’re not just running the show, you’re the puppet master pulling all the strings in your life. And you know what separates the puppet masters from the puppets?
Student: What?
Coach: They make decisions. And if you want to be more dominant, you have to start making decisions.
Student: But what if I’m not sure what the right decision is?
Coach: Welcome to life, kid! None of us are 100% sure. The difference is, some of us have the balls to make a call anyway. Guess which group gets the girl? Here’s the truth bomb: it’s often better to make a decision, even if it’s not perfect, than to stand there like a deer in headlights. The act of deciding itself demonstrates leadership and courage.
Student: Seriously? Even if I totally screw it up? Even if it’s the wrong decision?
Coach: Yes, because when you make a decision confidently and stick to it, you project certainty. This appearance of certainty is what others perceive as… (chapter continues)
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"While you're reading her signals, she's reading your hesitation."
✅️ In this chapter:
Learn why most men live reactively in others’ worlds and how to flip the script, becoming the creator of your own compelling reality.
Master the art of being so grounded in your own truth that others start questioning their limiting beliefs and want to join your world instead.
Your Reality: Building Your World, Your Rules
Student: You mentioned creating my own reality earlier. What exactly do you mean by that? It sounds kind of abstract.
Coach: It’s less abstract than you might think. It’s about harnessing the power of our expectations and mastering the art of reframing. Let me break it down for you with a practical example. When you approach a woman you’re interested in, what do you usually expect to happen?
Student: Haha, I rarely approach, to be honest. But when I did, I hoped she wouldn’t reject me outright. I usually assume she probably has a boyfriend or wouldn’t be interested in me anyway.
Coach: I see. And how does carrying that expectation make you feel when you’re considering approaching someone?
Student: Pretty damn nervous, to be honest. It’s like my stomach’s doing backflips.
Coach: Bingo! That’s exactly my point. When you’re nervous, you act nervous. You project that anxiety, and it makes you come across as unattractive. Your assumptions and expectations are sabotaging your approach before you even open your mouth.
Student: What are you really trying to say?
Coach: I’m saying that our expectations often become self-fulfilling prophecies. It’s like a self-imposed curse. When you expect a negative outcome, you unconsciously behave in ways that make that outcome more likely. You’re essentially setting yourself up for failure.
Student: That sounds like some new-age, ‘The Secret’ kind of stuff…
Coach: I get why you might think that, and you’re not alone in that initial reaction. But hear me out. This concept isn’t some mystical mumbo-jumbo; it’s grounded in well-established psychological principles. Let’s look at a concrete example from the world of sports. Think about top athletes like Michael Jordan, Novak Djokovic, or Mike Tyson. Do you think they step onto the court or into the ring expecting to lose?
Student: No way. Those guys are known for their insane confidence. They always expect to win.
Coach: Exactly. These athletes might feel fear, but they consistently expect to win. Now, does that guarantee they’ll win every single time?
Student: No, I guess not. Even the best athletes lose sometimes.
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"Your fear of making mistakes with women is your biggest mistake with women."
✅️ In this chapter:
Transform your interactions by mastering genuine charm that makes women feel uniquely valued.
Move beyond superficial compliments and manipulative techniques to create real emotional connections that women crave.
Learn why most men’s attempts at charm feel insincere, and discover how to make women feel truly special.
Charm: Making Her Feel Special Without Faking It
Student: Okay so, to be more attractive I just need to be masculine, courageous, dominant, and decisive? Apply everything we have discussed so far?
Coach: What you’ve described are crucial foundations, but many guys make the mistake of stopping there. You see, most guys believe being couragous and dominant is enough. They think that if they can just demonstrate strength or dominance, women will automatically be attracted to them. This mindset often leads men to focus solely on approaching women without focusing on keeping her. While these qualities can be attractive to some degree, they’re missing a crucial element.
Student: Which is?
Coach: What these men are missing is charm. Women might be initially attracted by your strength, but they won’t necessarily feel desire to spend more time with you – unless you are creating positive emotions by making your woman feel special and valued in your presence. Without charm, you might come across as aloof or unapproachable, as one-dimensional or even intimidating, even if you’re courageous.
Student: How so?
Coach: Well, think about it this way. Courage, dominance, and decisiveness are like the structure of a house – they provide a strong foundation and framework. But charm is like the interior design that makes the house a home. It’s what makes people want to stay and feel comfortable. When you’re only focused on being strong and decisive, you will make a woman feel safe, but not special and valued in your presence.
Student: I see what you mean, so, I have to be nice to her?
Coach: No, charm isn’t about being nice or agreeable. It’s about making others feel good about themselves, but it all starts with you. Not every compliment, look or statement carries the same weight – it depends on who’s giving it. That’s why it all starts with you…
Student: I’m not sure I follow. How does it start with me?
Coach: Think about it this way: if… (chapter continues)
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"She's not judging your looks. She's judging if you judge yourself."
✅️ In this chapter:
Gain complete mastery over your internal world, eliminating the self-doubt and mental chatter that sabotages your success with women.
Learn why most men are slaves to their emotions and external circumstances, and how to develop unshakeable internal control that women find irresistibly attractive.
Master the art of maintaining composure and certainty regardless of the situation.
Internal Control: Mastering Your Own Mind
Student: An internal what? Ah, yes, you mentioned that at the beginning…an internal focus of control.
Coach: No, not focus, locus! Locus means the place where something is situated, and in this case, it’s internal. It’s about believing that you, not external forces, are in control of your life and its outcomes. You, not others, are in charge.
Student: Explain please…
Coach: Imagine two guys who didn’t get a job they applied for. The guy with an external locus of control might say, “The interviewer was in a bad mood” or “I just got unlucky.” He’s placing the cause of his failure on external factors.
Student: And the guy with an internal locus of control?
Coach: He might say, “I need to improve my interview skills” or “I should have prepared more thoroughly.” He’s focusing on what he could have done differently, things within his control.
Let’s say you approach a woman and she’s not interested. A guy with an external locus might think, “She’s probably stuck up” or “I’m just not good-looking enough.” He’s putting the outcome on factors outside his control.
Student: And someone with an internal locus?
Coach: They might think, “Maybe my approach was too abrupt” or “I could work on my confidence.” They’re focusing on aspects they can improve. Get it?
Student: I think so…
Coach: Let’s consider a student who received a poor grade on an important exam. This is a perfect scenario to illustrate the difference between an external and internal locus of control.
A student with an external locus of control might say something like, “The teacher is terrible at explaining things” or “The test was unfair and too hard.” They’re placing the blame for their poor performance entirely on external factors – in this case, the teacher or the test itself.
Student: I’ve definitely thought things like that before. So what would someone with an internal locus of control think?
Coach: Now, a student with an internal locus of control might instead think, “I didn’t study as effectively as I could have” or “I need to ask for help when I don’t understand something in class.” They’re focusing on aspects of the situation that they can control and improve.
Student: But what if the teacher really is bad at explaining things?
Coach: That’s a fair point. It’s true that external factors, like a teacher’s teaching style, can have an impact. However, someone with an internal locus of control would still focus on what they can do about it. They might think, “If the teacher’s explanations aren’t clear, I need to find additional resources to help me understand the material.”
Student: I see. So it’s not about ignoring external factors, but focusing on what you can do despite them?
Coach: Exactly! You’ve got it. It’s about recognizing that while you can’t always control your circumstances, you can control your response to them.
Student: Yes, I understand.
Coach: When something goes wrong, do you blame outside factors, or do you look at what you could have done differently? An internal locus of control means you focus on what you can control – your actions, your responses, your decisions. Most people, especially women, have an external locus of control – they think success is just luck, or that their life is controlled by circumstances beyond their control.
Student: How so?
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"The critic has one main job - to keep you "safe" by keeping you small. Any time you try to expand beyond your comfort zone, it kicks in with all sorts of warnings and put-downs."
✅️ In this chapter:
Discover how to overcome debilitating self-consciousness and silence the harsh inner critic that sabotages your ability to take courageous action and actually be attractive.
You’ll learn practical techniques to recognize and dismiss irrational self-limiting thoughts, and instead anchor yourself firmly in the present moment where true masculine presence is forged.
Killing The Inner Critic: From Self-Consciousness to Self-Mastery
Student: Coach, I’ve been trying to apply everything we’ve discussed, but I keep getting stuck in my head. It’s like there’s this constant voice analyzing everything I do, worrying about how I come across…
Coach: Let me tell you something that’ll blow your mind. You know what all those people you’re worried about are thinking? Nothing – about you, at least. They’re too busy being wrapped up in their own heads, worrying what YOU think about THEM.
Student: Really? But it feels like everyone’s watching and judging…
Coach: That’s your ego talking. Think about it – when you walk into a room, are you actually analyzing everyone else? Or are you mostly thinking about yourself, how you look, what you should say?
Student: [laughs] Yeah, I guess I’m usually just worried about myself.
Coach: Exactly. And everyone else is doing the same thing. While you’re worried about what they think of your shoes, they’re worried about what you think of their hair. It’s like a room full of people all thinking they’re on stage, when really, everyone’s too focused on their own performance to watch anyone else’s.
Student: So being self-conscious is just… pointless?
Coach: Worse than pointless – it’s actively hurting you, especially with women. And here’s the real kicker: women might be self-conscious about their looks, but for them, it doesn’t kill their attractiveness. For men? Being self-conscious is like kryptonite to masculine energy.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Think about times you’ve been totally absorbed in something – playing sports, deep in a hobby, or just having a great conversation. Were you thinking about how you looked or what others thought of you in those moments?
Student: No… I was just in the moment.
Coach: That’s natural courage . But what happens when you try to be courageous? Tell me what goes through your head when you see an attractive woman.
Student: Oh man… it’s like my brain goes into overdrive. “How’s my posture? What should I say? Do I look okay? What if she thinks I’m weird? Maybe I should wait for a sign…”
Coach: And while all that mental chatter is happening, what are you actually doing?
Student: Usually… nothing. Just standing there thinking.
Coach: This is where most guys screw up. They think the path to courage is through more self-awareness, more analysis. But they end up paralyzed, so focused on themselves they can’t actually engage with the world. Your mind can only focus on one thing at a time – you’re either in your head or in the moment. Can’t be both.
Student: Man, I just don’t know how to shut my brain up. It’s exhausting.
Coach: Look, here’s the thing – you weren’t born overthinking like this. Understand that this isn’t natural. You weren’t born self-conscious. Look at any kid – they’re completely unselfconscious until society teaches them to start questioning themselves. This constant self-analysis? It’s learned behavior from years of being told to “think about what others think.”
Student: Okay, but how do I unlearn it?
Coach: Like any habit, you replace it. Instead of thinking about what others think of you, focus on what YOU think of yourself. But here’s the crucial part – your opinion has to outweigh everyone else’s. When you truly value your own judgment above others’, their opinions become background noise.
Student: That sounds good in theory, but in practice?
Coach: Start catching that inner dialogue. You know the one: “But what if… Maybe she… I don’t know… She probably…” As soon as you notice that pattern, tell yourself to shut up and focus outward. On her, on the situation, on anything but yourself.
Student: Just… tell myself to shut up?
Coach: Yes. Think of it like changing the channel on a radio. Your mind will always be playing something – either the self-conscious channel or the present-moment channel. You choose which one to tune into.
Student: But don’t you need to be aware of how you come across?
Coach: There’s a big difference between being aware and being in your head all the time. There’s a difference between self-awareness and self-consciousness. Self-awareness is knowing where you stand and what you want. Self-consciousness is obsessing over how you appear. One is powerful, the other paralyzing.
Student: But isn’t it safer to keep your expectations low? That way you don’t get your hopes up and get crushed when things don’t work out…
Coach: That kind of pessimism might protect you from disappointment, but it kills attraction. Women can smell that defensive energy a mile away. Instead, assume positive but realistic outcomes. Remeber: Pessimists may sound smart, but optimists are the one who are actually sleeping with women.
Student: What’s a realistic positive expectation?
Coach: Expecting women to respond well to masculine energy – that’s realistic. Expecting them to approach you first – that’s not. Expecting to have good interactions when you approach directly – realistic. Expecting every woman to fall madly in love with you – not realistic.
Student: But don’t I need to actually feel confident/certain about these outcomes?
Coach: Here’s something crucial – it’s more important to act certain than to feel certain. Your internal state matters less than your actions. Even if you’re not fully convinced yet, act as if you expect positive outcomes.
Student: Isn’t that fake though?
Coach: No, it’s practice. Your mind follows your actions. Act like someone who expects good things, and your mind will catch up. But here’s the key – when good things do happen, you can’t act surprised.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: If a woman says she wants to see you again, don’t act shocked like you expected rejection. That just makes her question her choice. Your reaction should be calm, like it’s natural and expected – because it is, when you’re being authentic and masculine.
Student: So fake it till you make it?
Coach: More like practice until it’s natural. Focus on the women you’re genuinely attracted to, act like you expect positive outcomes, and trust that you’re entitled to good interactions by virtue of being a man who goes for what he wants.
Student: Still seems scary…
Coach: Of course it’s scary – you’re rewiring decades of social conditioning. But here’s what’s scarier: spending your life trapped in your head, analyzing yourself instead of actually living. Every time you catch yourself being self-conscious, remember – while you’re busy judging yourself, life is passing you by. The choice is simple: you can either be in your head or in the moment. Choose the moment.
Student: But what if I fail?
Coach: You will. That’s part of the process. But failing while taking action beats succeeding at being paralyzed in your head. Each time you choose action over analysis, even if you mess up, you’re building the habit of being present instead of self-conscious.
Remember this: self-consciousness is just another form of self-absorption. Want to be more attractive? Stop thinking about yourself so much. Focus outward, take action, and let the results take care of themselves. Your job isn’t to be perfect – it’s to be present and engaged in reality instead of lost in your thoughts about reality.
Student: That’s… actually liberating.
Coach: Exactly. Once you truly get that other people are too busy thinking about themselves to judge you, and that your opinion of yourself matters more than theirs anyway, you’re free. Free to take action, free to make mistakes, free to learn and grow. That’s real courage – not the absence of uncertainty, but the willingness to act despite it, without getting lost in self-conscious thoughts.
Student: You mentioned catching that inner voice… mine’s pretty harsh actually. Always criticizing, always finding fault…
Coach: Ah, the inner critic. You know where that voice comes from?
Student: My own insecurities?
Coach: It’s actually an internalized version of every authority figure who ever criticized you – parents, teachers, peers. Over time, you absorbed…(chapter continues)
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"The reason most men fail with women isn't lack of technique - it's their desperate need for certainty."
✅️ In this chapter:
Learn why most men’s indirect, permission-seeking language kills desire, while clear, intentional speech ignites it.
Discover how to express yourself with such clarity and conviction that women can’t help but be drawn to your authentic masculine energy.
Verbal Skills: Saying Exactly What You Mean
Student: Okay, we’ve talked about a lot of internal stuff – mindset, courage, and all that. But what about actually talking to women? How should I communicate with them?
Coach: Good question. Communication is the absolute key to attraction and relationships. The way you communicate can make or break your interactions with women. Let’s break it down into two main categories: verbal and non-verbal communication.
Student: Alright, let’s start with verbal. How should I talk to women?
Coach: When it comes to verbal communication with women, the most important thing is to communicate in a totally opposite way of how they are communicating.
Student: Wait, what? That doesn’t make any sense. Why would I do that?
Coach: I know it sounds counterintuitive, but hear me out. Have you ever noticed how women tend to hint at things, use subtle language, and sometimes expect you to read between the lines? For example, she might say “It’s getting chilly in here” when she wants you to close the window, instead of directly asking you to do it.
Student: Yeah, right!
Coach: Well, as a man, you need to do the opposite.
Student: So you’re saying I should be… what, blunt?
Coach: Not blunt, but direct. There’s a crucial difference. Being blunt means not caring about the impact of your words or the other person’s feelings. Being direct means clearly stating your intentions and thoughts while still being mindful of delivery.
It’s like the difference between saying “You’re hot, let’s go out” and “I find you really attractive and I’d like to take you out.” Both are direct, but one shows social intelligence while the other just shows lack of refinement. If you’re interested in a woman, tell her. If you want to go on a date, ask her. Don’t beat around the bush or drop hints.
Student: I don’t know man…
Coach: Let’s say you see a woman you find attractive. An indirect approach would be to go up to her and ask for directions, or make a comment about the weather, hoping to start a conversation. A direct approach would be walking up to her, looking her in the eye, and saying… (chapter continues)
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"Your endless thinking about the 'right move' is exactly what's stopping you from making any move."
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Learn why most men unknowingly broadcast weakness through their body language, and how to project strength and certainty through never-before-revealed body language secrets.
Nonverbal Power: How to Speak Volumes Without Saying a Word
“In attraction, what you do matters far more than what you say. Your actions speak louder than any pickup line.”
Student: Alright, I think I’m getting the hang of this direct communication thing., not bragging, not complaining and not putting myself or others down! But you mentioned earlier there was verbal and non-verbal stuff. What about the non-verbal part? Does that matter as much?
Coach: Oh man, does it ever! Let me give you some perspective – research shows that up to 93% of communication is non-verbal. That means what you say only accounts for 7% of the message you’re sending. In fact, your non-verbal communication might even be more important than what you’re saying, especially in attraction. Think about it – before you even open your mouth, a woman has already made several judgments about you based purely on how you carry yourself. You could say all the right things, but if your body language is screaming “I’m nervous and insecure,” you’re dead in the water.
Student: Seriously? I didn’t realize it was that big a deal. What kind of non-verbal stuff are we talking about here?
Coach: We’re talking about everything from your posture to your eye contact, the way you move, how you use touch, even the tone of your voice. It’s a whole package, and it’s constantly sending messages, if you are not consciously in control of it, about your level of self-esteem, how important and valuable you deem yourself, and how courageous you are.
Student: Pfff.. Where do I even start with all that?
Coach: Let’s break it down piece by piece. First things first – your body language. Stand up for me real quick. Let me see how you’d normally stand if you were talking to a woman you’re interested in.
Student: [Stands up, slightly slouched with hands in pockets]
Coach: Alright, I see what we’re working with. First thing – pull those hands out of your pockets. You’re not trying to hide anything, right? Now, stand up straight, shoulders back. Yeah, that’s it. Chin up a bit. There you go!
Student: This feels… kinda weird, not gonna lie.
Coach: It might feel weird at first – or it might feel like you’re trying too hard or showing off. But that feeling is actually a good sign – it means you’re breaking old patterns, it’s just your old conditioning talking. Trust me, it makes a world of difference. This posture screams courage.
Student: How so?
Coach: To actually understand that, you first have to realize that our physical actions express our mental attitudes – it reveals how we feel on the side. Think about it – when you see a guy walking with his shoulders slumped and his head down, what does that tell you?
Student: I guess… that he’s not feeling great? I dunno… maybe he’s having a rough day or something?
Coach: You’re on the right track. It’s like life’s got him in a chokehold, you know? When a guy’s spirit is taking a beating, his body waves the white flag. He doesn’t just feel low – he looks it. His whole body’s basically saying, “I give up.” It’s like his backbone’s gone AWOL. When something’s weighing on a man’s spirit, it shows in his body. Can you see how a proud posture, the opposite of slumped shoulders and a head down, screams courage?
Student: I think so…
Coach: When you stand… (chapter continues)
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"Pessimists sound smart, but optimists are the ones who are actually getting laid."
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Learn why typical approach techniques feel awkward and forced, while natural, confident approaches create instant attraction.
Discover how to initiate interactions so smoothly that women feel like they’ve known you forever.
The Approach: From Sight to Conversation
Coach: Now that we’ve covered everything from mindset to communication, let’s put it all together and make it work for you and start approaching women!
Student: Approaching women? Man, that’s terrifying. I always freeze up when I see a girl I like.
Coach: That’s exactly why we need to talk about it. You freeze up because you are experiencing approach anxiety, which is common, but it’s not natural. You didn’t have it as a kid. It’s learned behavior, a result of social conditioning. The good news is, you can overcome it through practice and by expanding your comfort zone. In fact, approaching is where the rubber meets the road. It’s where you get to apply everything we’ve discussed so far.
Student: But how do I even start? What do I say? What signs should I be looking for?
Coach: Let me stop you right there. Looking for signs or signals is a classic mistake. It’s approval-seeking behavior, which is the opposite of what we’ve been discussing. Remember, a man with high self-esteem and an internal locus of control doesn’t wait for permission or approval to take action.
Student: But isn’t it smart to look for signs she’s interested before I approach?
Coach: It might seem smart, but it’s actually counterproductive. Let me give you some examples:.. (chapter continues)
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"The moment you need a woman's validation is the moment you lose her attraction."
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You’ll discover how to create such strong initial attraction that women eagerly give you their number and look forward to hearing from you.
Most importantly, you’ll learn how to avoid the common mistakes that lead to flaking and false numbers.
Phone Numbers: Getting Them Without Begging
Student: I’m still a bit confused about getting her number. Can you walk me through the process? I’m not sure when the right time is or how to bring it up without sounding awkward.
Coach: Of course, I understand your concern. Many guys struggle with this part. The first thing to remember is that the number itself isn’t the goal. It’s just a means to continue the interaction. Your focus should always be on the woman, not the digits. Think of it as a natural progression of your conversation. Because, in the end, what you want is not her number, but to continue talking to her because you like her and she is attractive to you.
Student: That makes sense, but I still feel nervous about it. How do I know when it’s the right time to ask?
Coach: Forget about the ‘right time’. Enjoy the conversation and let it flow naturally. When she or you have to leave, that’s usually a good time to suggest continuing the interaction. Go for it. Don’t overthink it.
Student: But what exactly should I say? I always feel like I’m fumbling for words.
Coach: Be the same as when you approached her… (chapter continues)
"Most men spend hundreds trying to look attractive. Smart men invest once in BEING attractive."
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Learn exactly when to call, what to say, and how to maintain the attraction you’ve created.
Through practical examples, you’ll discover how to set up dates that women actually show up to, eager to see you again.
Stop wondering about timing or what to say and start turning numbers into real dates consistently.
The Follow-Up Call: When and What to Say
Student: So, uh… when should I call her after getting her number?
Coach: There’s no need to play games or wait a certain number of days to call her. That’s old-fashioned advice that doesn’t align with being masculine, courageous and direct.
Call her when you can and feel like it. If you’ve met during the day, call that same evening. If it was a Friday night, call her the next day once you figure she’s probably awake. Remember, it’s not about when you call, it’s about how you came across when you met her.
If you were courageous, charming, and responsible in your approach, she’ll be glad to hear from you no matter when you call – unless you wait too long. Heck, you can even call her in the middle of the night if you feel like it, and she will probably like it because it displays your high level of self-esteem. You deem yourself important enough to expect her to pick up when you call. That is attractive, not a nuisance as most would have you believe.
No matter when you call, you have to keep in mind the purpose of the call, which is nothing more than to set up a date to meet in person, not to have a long phone conversation. So call when you’re ready to propose a specific time and place to meet up again. Be assertive and assume she wants to see you. There’s no need to wait – show your continued interest by following up relatively quickly.
Student: But what if I wait too long? How long is too long?
Coach: Good question. “Too long” is subjective, but the idea is to maintain the momentum from your initial interaction. If you wait too long, she might assume you’re not really interested, which contradicts the impression you want to give.
Student: I get that, but won’t calling too soon make me look desperate?
Coach: It’s a common concern, but here’s the thing: desperation comes from how you act, not when you call. If you call with courage, proposing a specific plan, you’re showing initiative, not desperation. Desperation is when you call repeatedly or sound unsure. The key is in your attitude, not the timing.
Student: Okay, got it. But what do I actually say when I call?
Coach: When you call her you have to have a plan in mind. Tell her who you are, ask her how she is doing, and then hit her with your date idea.
When calling to ask a woman out, you should set a definite date, time and place. Don’t say vague things like “Would you like to go out sometime?” This shows weakness and uncertainty.
Instead, say something like, “Hey, it’s [your name]. How are you? (let er talk) I’m calling you because I want to see you again/ take you out for a drink. Let’s grab coffee at [specific place] tomorrow at 7.”
Don’t ask if she’s free. Assume she wants to see you – and because if you approached her like I taught you, she does. Assume she is willing to reschedule things for you as you are an important individual. Keep it short and sweet.
This shows you’re a man who takes initiative and knows what he wants. It also makes it easier for her to say yes.
And for the love of all that’s holy, don’t remind her where you met. If she doesn’t remember you or where you two met, you screwed up your approach. Go back to the drawing board and figure out where you went wrong. Just tell her you got the numbers mixed up and move on. Have some self-respect! Remember, you’re not some needy puppy hoping for a treat. You’re a confident man with a plan.
Act like it.
Student: What if she says she’s busy at the I suggest to date?
Coach: If she’s interested but that time doesn’t work, she’ll likely suggest another time. If she just says she’s busy without offering an alternative, you can suggest another time yourself. The key is to remain the leader, by taking the initiative and being decisive while remaining flexible.
This also means to end the interaction forever, if she’s consistently unavailable or too rigid without suggesting alternatives, because that’s a sign she is probably not interested, and it’s time to move on.
Student: This happened to me once, she forgot who I was…
Coach: That means you messed things up before the call. Women don’t forget men who approach them like I taught you. And stop thinking that you are that unimportant. Remeber, assume attraction, always!
Student: Couldn’t I just text her instead? It seems easier…
Coach: Come on now, are you serious? Did you not hear a word I said this entire time? Texting or sending a DM? That’s… (chapter continues)
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"Your social programming is your invisible prison. Breaking free is your only path to real attraction."
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Learn how to create unforgettable experiences that stand out from every other guy she’s met, building irresistible attraction while having more fun than you thought possible.
Through field-tested strategies, you’ll discover how to lead dates in a way that consistently creates both emotional connection and sexual tension.
First Date Secrets Revealed
Student: Okay, I call her up and set up a definite date with her. Where should I take her? I was thinking maybe a fancy restaurant or a movie?
Coach: Why?
Student: I just thought it would be nice, you know? Give her a special experience. Show her I can take her to nice places. I figured a fancy restaurant would show I’ve got good taste and can afford nice things. And movies are classic date spots, right? I thought it’d be a safe bet.
Coach: Alright, let’s get this straight. You’re falling into a classic trap here, and it’s one that a lot of guys make. Let me break it down for you: First off, forget about trying to impress her with fancy places or passive activities like movies. The point of a date is to spend time with and get to know a woman who is above all, absolutely aware and has a completely clear understanding that you want her and are sexually attracted to her – before you two even meet!
Most guys set up dates with women who are then righfully assuming it’s a platonic relationship! You don’t want to do that, ever! That’s why the correct approach we discussed earlier is crucial! And that is why restaurants and movies are bad date ideas!
Student: Wait, really? But I thought restaurants and movies were classic date spots. What’s wrong with them?
Coach: Restaurants and movies are terrible date ideas, especially for a first date. Here’s why:… (chapter continues)
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"Your biggest problem with women isn't your looks - it's your need to prove you're worthy of them."
✅️ In this chapter:
You’ll learn how to create deep emotional connections while maintaining sexual tension, making her feel more understood and attracted than ever before.
Never run out of things to say again and create such compelling conversations that women lose track of time when they’re with you.
Date Conversation: Keeping Her Hooked
Student: Yeah… I always feel like I’m gonna screw it up somehow.
Coach: A lot of guys feel that way. What’s your biggest worry?
Student: I guess… running out of things to say? Or saying the wrong thing?
Coach: Okay, let’s tackle that. First off, you need to understand something about people in general. We’re all a bit self-centered.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Think about it. What’s the first thing you do when you get a group photo? Look for yourself, right?
Student: Yeah, I guess so.
Coach: Humans are inherently self-centered creatures. We’re all walking around with an internal radio station called “WIIFM” – What’s In It For Me?
Student: Wait, are you saying I should be selfish on the date?
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"The more you try to keep her, the faster she'll leave. The more you can walk away, the longer she'll stay."
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Eliminate all anxiety about physical escalation with a proven system for perfectly timed intimacy.
Learn why most men miss obvious signals and opportunities, while mastering the art of creating magical moments that lead naturally to the kiss.
Never miss another opportunity to take things to the next level.
The Kiss: When and How to Make Your Move
Coach: Well, you have to start going for a kiss every date, especially the first one!
Student: Won’t that scare her off?
Coach: The whole point of getting together is to have sex. But to do that, you have to make it crystal clear that you’re sexually interested in her. No ambiguity, no confusion. That’s why you flirt with her AND that’s why you MUST go for the kiss!
You’re there because you find her attractive and you want her. Period. Your actions, your words, your body language – everything should scream ‘I want you’. That’s what separates a real date from just hanging out as friends. If she’s not absolutely certain by the end of the night that you’re sexually attracted to her, you’ve failed. Heck, you’ve failed if she isn’t certain in that before you two had the date, but you get the point.
Women need to know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you see them as potential sexual partners, not just a buddy. That’s how you build tension, that’s how you create excitement, and that’s how you set the stage for things to progress.
Anything less is just wasting both your time. That’s why you have to go for the kiss. It’s a crucial step in escalating things physically and making your intentions crystal clear.
Student: But how do I know when the right moment is? I’m always worried about messing it up.
Coach: Here’s the thing… (chapter continues)
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"They taught you to hide your desires to be respectful. Then wonder why women find you sexually invisible."
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Discover the hidden truth about female sexual psychology that most men never grasp.
Learn why conventional sexual techniques leave women unsatisfied, while mastering the art of creating the kind of primal experiences women fantasize about.
Become the type of lover that women can’t stop thinking about.
S*x: What She Really Wants in Bed
Student: Coach, I’ve always thought that women just aren’t as into sex as men. Like, they’re always the ones holding back or not as eager. Is that true?
Coach: That’s a pretty common belief, but it’s not accurate at all. Women are actually more sexual than men in many ways, but society has made it seem like they aren’t.
Student: More sexual? No way…
Coach: Yes! Let me give you a few examples. First off, biologically, women have a higher capacity for sexual pleasure. Unlike men, who typically have a “one-and-done” kind of experience, women can have multiple orgasms in a single sexual encounter without needing a recovery period. They have more erogenous zones than men, meaning their bodies are wired for pleasure in ways men aren’t. Women can experience orgasms from different types of stimulation—clitoral, vaginal, even just from nipple stimulation or mental arousal.
Student: Wait, really? I thought men were the ones who were always more into it because we think about it all the time.
Coach: That’s another misconception. Studies show that women actually have a wider range of sexual fantasies and desires than men do. In fact, women are aroused by a greater variety of stimuli than men. It’s just that women have been conditioned to hide or downplay their sexuality because of societal pressures.
Student: So you’re saying women want sex just as much, or even more, but they just don’t show it?
Coach: Exactly. Women are taught from a young age to suppress their desires because of cultural and societal expectations. Historically, there’s been a lot of effort put into controlling female sexuality.
Student: But why?
Coach: You’ve heard of the patriarchy, right? It’s a system that’s been around for thousands of years to ensure that men could control women’s sexuality, often to guarantee things like lineage.
Student: Lineage? What do you mean by that?
Coach: Think about it: for most of human history, men wanted to ensure that the children their wives or partners gave birth to were biologically theirs. So, controlling women’s sexuality became a way of controlling reproduction. If a woman was sexually active with multiple men, a husband or partner couldn’t be sure the children were his. To avoid this uncertainty, women’s sexual freedom was restricted. Men wanted to guarantee their resources were going to their own offspring, so the idea of women being sexually independent or promiscuous was seen as a threat.
Student: Wow. So this whole idea of women being less sexual was actually about control?
Coach: Exactly. It’s deeply rooted in things like the patriarchy and religious institutions. Over time, women were shamed for expressing sexual desire. They were labeled as immoral or “loose” if they didn’t conform to strict, often religious, ideals about sex being only for marriage or procreation. In many cultures, women were even punished for enjoying or expressing sexual pleasure.
Student: So that’s why women might act like they don’t care about sex, even if they do?
Coach: Right. They’re often navigating a social landscape where they’re judged for being too sexual. A man can brag about his sexual exploits and be praised for it, but if a woman does the same thing, she’s likely to be shamed. It’s a double standard that’s been in place for centuries.
Student: That’s so unfair. I guess I’ve always just bought into the idea that men are more sexual by nature, but it sounds like that’s not really true…
Coach: It’s not. Think about it: if women weren’t so sexual, why would there have been such a massive effort to control and suppress their sexuality throughout history? Things like chastity belts, the demonization of women’s bodies in religious texts, the harsh punishments for women who had sex outside of marriage—it’s all about controlling female desire.
Student: I guess I never realized how much pressure women are under when it comes to sex.
Coach: That’s a perfect way to put it. Women have to balance their natural sexual desires with the fear of being judged or labeled for expressing them. But once you understand this, you can also understand why you have to take FULL responsibility for it…
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Well, have you ever heard women say things like ‘We shouldn’t be doing this.’ when things start heating up?
Student: Yes!
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"She can not tell if you're nervous. But she can tell if you let that nervousness stop you."
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This the crucial post-intimacy period that determines the future of your connection.
Learn why most men let great opportunities slip away after sex, while discovering how to maintain attraction and set clear expectations.
Take complete control of your dating life by mastering this often-overlooked phase.
After Sex: Deciding What Happens Next
Student: Wait, what do you mean? I thought the hard part was over once you had sex. Are you saying there’s more to think about?
Coach: Absolutely. Sex isn’t the finish line, it’s more like the starting point of a new phase. After sex, you have several options: you could make it a one-night stand, keep her as a friend with benefits, start dating her exclusively, or even consider a long-term relationship. The key is that YOU get to decide based on what YOU want.
Student: But shouldn’t we both decide together?
Coach: Look, I get where you’re coming from, but here’s the thing: as a man, you need to lead. Women want a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. If you’re wishy-washy or leave it all up to her, you’re not being the confident, decisive man she was attracted to in the first place.
Student: So what, I just tell her what’s going to happen?
Coach: Not exactly. You decide what you want, then you communicate that to her clearly. If you want to keep things casual, you might say something like, “I had a great time with you. I’d love to see you again, but I want to be upfront that I’m not looking for anything serious right now.” If you’re interested in pursuing something more, you could say, “That was a lot of fun!”
Student: But what if she wants something different?
Coach: Then you have a decision to make. Are you willing to compromise, or do you stick to what you want? Remember, it’s better to be honest about your intentions from the start. It saves both of you time and potential heartache down the line.
Student: I get that, but isn’t this when we should start building a deeper connection?
Coach: Here’s something crucial that most men never understand, and it’s going to change how you see relationships completely: While women love relationships and emotional connection, they don’t need a man for that. Think about it—women already have deep, meaningful relationships with their girlfriends.
Student: What exactly do you mean?
Coach: Look at any woman’s life – she has 5-6 close girlfriends who give her everything she needs emotionally. They talk for hours about feelings. They understand every emotional nuance. They support her unconditionally. They analyze every detail of her life. They validate her constantly. They know exactly what to say when she’s upset.
Student: Now that you mention it, my sister spends hours on the phone with her friends…
Coach: Exactly. And here’s where most guys screw up after sex – they try to become another girlfriend. They start texting good morning and goodnight. They want to talk about feelings constantly. They try to be her emotional support. Meanwhile, her girlfriends are already giving her all of that – and they’re better at it than you’ll ever be.
Student: So what should I be focusing on instead?
Coach: What her girlfriends CAN’T give her – masculine leadership and mind-blowing sex. Think about it – she’s drowning in emotional support from her girlfriends. What she needs from YOU is something entirely different. She needs your masculine presence that makes her feel feminine. She needs strong leadership that lets her relax. She needs passionate sex that comes from true polarity. Everything else? Her girlfriends have that covered.
Student: That actually makes a lot of sense… So I shouldn’t try to become her emotional support?
Coach: Exactly. Stop competing with her girlfriends at what they do best. Focus on providing what they can’t – being a strong masculine force in her life. Lead with certainty. Take charge sexually. Stay solid when she’s emotional. That’s what keeps her attracted long-term, not your ability to talk about feelings…
Student: This feels like a lot of pressure. How am I supposed to know what I want right after having sex?
Coach: It’s not about making a lifelong commitment on the spot. It’s about being honest with yourself and with her about your current feelings and intentions. Trust your gut. If you’re excited to see her again, pursue that. If you feel like it was fun but you’re not interested in more, that’s okay too. The key is to be clear and direct about it. No need to feel ashamed of anything. And remeber, you don’t owe her anything.
Student: I see. So it’s not just about getting laid, it’s about taking responsibility for what happens next?
Coach: Exactly! You’re getting it now. Taking responsibility is a key part of being a man. It’s about creating the reality you want, not just passively letting things happen to you. This applies to all aspects of your life, including your relationships with women.
Student: Wait a minute… You said that if I want something more, I could say, ‘That was a lot of fun!’ Aren’t I supposed to tell her I want, well, something more?
Coach: You don’t want to come off as desperate. Only people who are desperate suggest being exclusive after a couple of dates. You cannot…(chapter continues)
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"Society programmed you to earn love through achievement. That's why you keep losing at love."
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Discover how to maintain magnetic attraction in long-term relationships when most couples fall into boring routines.
Learn why passion typically dies in relationships and how to prevent it from happening to you.
Master the art of keeping her constantly attracted and engaged long after the honeymoon phase ends.
Long-Term Attraction: Keeping the Fire Alive
Student: Very, very interesting stuff I tell you!
Coach: I know right?
Student: Yes. Let’s say I get into an exclusive relationship with a woman, right. How do I keep things exciting? How do I maintain that initial spark? Is that even possible?
Coach: For sure! Very good question! The key is to not change yourself or your behaviour.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Well, think about it… What attracted her in the first place? Your courage, decisiveness, leadership quality, your charm… All of that, keep that doing! Most men stop doing this and they wonder what happened. You stopped being yourself, that’s what happened!
Student: Please explain more!
Coach: First, never stop flirting with her. And I mean never.
Student: Really? I thought flirting was just for the early stages. We’re comfortable now, so isn’t that enough?
Coach: Hell no! That comfort is exactly what kills the passion. You’ve gotta keep that spark alive every single day. Compliment her sincerely – notice the little things. Touch her casually throughout the day. Look at her with desire, like you did when you first met. It’s about making her feel wanted and desired constantly. Secondly, never… (chapter continues)
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"Most men spend: $100+ on a single bad date, $200+ on clothes they don't need, $500+ on dating apps that don't work!"
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This is the art of unshakeable certainty that makes you a rock in your relationships.
Learn why most men’s certainty crumbles under pressure, while discovering how to maintain your attractive edge no matter what challenges arise.
Become the kind of man that women trust completely and never want to leave.
Always Act Certain in Relationships
Student: Coach, I’ve been thinking about all this stuff we discussed about leading with certainty when approaching and dating. But what about once you’re actually in a relationship? That’s different, right?
Coach: [laughing] That’s where it matters even more. The moment you stop being certain in a relationship is the moment attraction starts to die.
Student: Really? But aren’t relationships supposed to be about compromise and being sensitive to each other’s feelings?
Coach: Let me ask you something. Ever catch yourself asking your girl where she wants to eat, then going back and forth for an hour because she says “I don’t know, where do you want to eat?”
Student: [laughing nervously] Man, like every weekend…
Coach: And how does that usually play out?
Student: It’s honestly exhausting. We just keep going in circles until someone gets frustrated.
Coach: Right. Because you’re not leading with certainty. You’re pushing the decision back to her, hoping to please her by letting her choose. But what you’re actually doing is making her feel unsafe.
Student: Unsafe? Just because I’m asking where she wants to eat?
Coach: Think about it. Women are attracted to men who can handle uncertainty and make decisions. Every time you bounce a decision back to her, you’re telling her, “I’m not strong enough to handle this simple choice.” If you can’t decide where to eat, how can she trust you with bigger life decisions?
Student: [defensive] But I’m just trying to be considerate…
Coach: No, you’re trying to avoid responsibility. Let me show you how this plays out in relationships. Give me a real example where you recently struggled with certainty.
Student: Well… last week my girlfriend wanted to hang out with some guys from her work. I didn’t like it but I didn’t want to seem controlling, so I just said “whatever you want to do.”
Coach: And how did that work out?
Student: She ended up not going, but she seemed… kind of distant after that.
Coach: Of course she did. Instead of being honest about your feelings and setting a clear boundary with certainty, you acted weak. You made her feel like she couldn’t trust your words because you weren’t even being honest about your own feelings.
Student: So what should I have done?
Coach: You should have said, “I’m not comfortable with that.” Simple. Direct. Certain. No anger, no control, just honest certainty about your boundary.
Student: But won’t that make her feel controlled?
Coach: Actually, the opposite. When you’re certain about your boundaries, she feels safe. She knows where you stand. It’s when you’re wishy-washy that women feel unsafe. They need to trust that you’ll tell them the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Student: Can you give me more examples?
Coach: Sure. Instead of “Do you maybe want to come over tonight?” say “Come over tonight at 8.” Instead of “Are you sure you want to be with me?” say “I want you in my life.” Instead of “Is everything okay?” when she’s upset, say “I see something’s bothering you. Talk to me.”
Student: But isn’t that kind of… demanding?
Coach: It’s not about being demanding. It’s about being clear and certain. Here’s another crucial point – you must remain absolutely certain about your attraction to her.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: When a woman asks, “Do you love me?” most guys stumble all over themselves trying to prove it. They start listing reasons, making promises, basically begging her to believe them. A man who acts with certainty simply says “Yes” and holds eye contact. The certainty in his response means more than a thousand nervous explanations.
Student: I get that, but what about when things get rocky? Like during arguments?
Coach: Here’s where most guys really mess up. The moment conflict hits, they abandon all certainty and start acting from fear. They think keeping the peace is more important than maintaining their masculine core.
Student: What do you mean? Shouldn’t you try to resolve conflicts quickly?
Coach: Tell me something – when you get into an argument with your girl, what’s your first instinct?
Student: Uh… usually to apologize and try to fix things as quickly as possible. Just do whatever it takes to end the argument.
Coach: Even if you’re not wrong?
Student: [embarrassed] Yeah… I just hate when she’s upset with me. The tension kills me.
Coach: And how’s that strategy working out for you in the long run?
Student: Not great, actually. Sometimes it feels like the arguments never really get resolved, they just… pause until the next time. And I end up feeling kind of… I don’t know… smaller somehow?
Coach: Of course you do. You’re choosing short-term peace over authentic certainty. You’re training her to see you as someone who will abandon his position just to avoid conflict. That’s not attractive, and more importantly, it doesn’t actually solve anything.
Student: Can you give me an example of how to handle conflict with certainty?… (chapter continues)
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"Women don't want safe men. They want dangerous men with control ."
A few days after the session...
Student: Wow, Coach, this has been incredibly eye-opening. I feel like I’m seeing dating and relationships in a whole new light now.
Coach: I’m glad to hear that. You’ve been really receptive and asked great questions throughout our discussions. I think you’re well on your way to becoming, not acting like a more attractive man.
Student: Thanks, I couldn’t have done it without your guidance.
[After a couple of weeks…]
Student: Hey Coach, something weird is going on. I’ve been applying everything we talked about and I’m definitely seeing results with women, but my friends are acting all strange about it…
Coach: Strange how?
Student: Well, like, they keep saying I just got lucky or that it’s because of my new haircut or something. And when I try to explain what I’ve actually been doing, they totally shut down or change the subject.
Coach: Ah, I’ve seen this a lot. It’s pretty typical when you start breaking out of the standard social programming around dating and relationships, which is the complete opposite of what we’ve been discussing in our sessions. It can really rattle people who are still bought into that way of thinking, you know?
Student: Yeah, but why? I mean, if they’re my friends, shouldn’t they be happy for me?
Coach: Sure, in an ideal world. But the thing is, when your success challenges their beliefs about how this stuff works, it can trigger some pretty deep insecurities. They might start questioning their own approach, and that’s uncomfortable.
People tend to rationalize when their worldview is challenged. If a friend sees you having newfound success with women, and that doesn’t fit into their understanding of how things work, they’ll often grasp for explanations that allow them to maintain their existing beliefs.
They might attribute your success to external factors like luck, your looks, money, your background, or some perceived advantage you have. It’s easier for them to do that than to question their own long-held assumptions, which are often based on that standard social programming we talked about.
Student: Is this related to what you mentioned about having an external locus of control?
Coach: Absolutely! People with an external locus of control believe that their successes or failures are due to factors outside their control, like luck, circumstance, or the actions of others. When they see your success, they’ll automatically attribute it to external factors because that’s how they view the world.
In contrast, you’re developing an internal locus of control. You believe that your outcomes are a result of your own actions and choices. That’s a powerful mindset shift, but it can be hard for others to understand if they’re not there yet.
Student: Why are they so resistant though? I’m just trying to share something that’s working for me.
Coach: A few reasons. One, if your success implies that their beliefs might be wrong, it can trigger an identity crisis. They may have built their whole lives around certain notions of what it takes to be successful with women. To question that is to question the foundation of their reality in a sense.
Two, your success might make them feel inadequate by comparison. If they’re not doing as well with women, and you’re demonstrating a different path, it shines a light on their own struggles. That can be uncomfortable.
And three, people often just have a hard time letting go of beliefs they’ve held for a long time, even in the face of contradictory evidence, like your results with women after internalizing and applying this stuff. There’s a certain comfort in the familiar, even if it’s not serving them.
Student: I guess I never realized how deep these beliefs run. It’s not just about picking up women, it’s about their whole worldview.
Coach: Exactly. For many guys, their beliefs about dating and relationships are tied to their identity as men. Challenging those beliefs can feel like an attack on who they are. That’s why they resist it so much, even when they see evidence that another way might work better.
Student: So what should I do? It’s frustrating to feel like I can’t even talk about this with my friends.
Coach: A few things. First, recognize that their reactions are more about them than about you. Don’t take it personally or let it dampen your enthusiasm or affect your self-esteem. Keep doing what’s working for you.
Second… (chapter continues)
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When she just sees you as a "friend"
Student: Coach, I’m in a really rough situation. There’s this girl I really like. We hang out all the time, text everyday… but she just sees me as a “friend.” [makes air quotes] I’ve been there for her through all her breakups, always listening to her problems. I thought maybe if I showed her what a great guy I am, she’d eventually see me differently. But now she’s talking about this other dude she’s into and it’s killing me.
Coach: Let me guess – you’re also her go-to guy for advice about these other men she’s interested in?
Student: Yeah… I figure if I show her I really care about her life…
Coach: [sighs deeply] You’re acting like her gay best friend and wondering why she’s not attracted to you?
Student: I’m not… I mean, I’m just being nice…
Coach: No, you’re being weak. You’re hiding your real intentions behind a mask of friendship. It’s manipulative and cowardly. You think if you stick around long enough, listen to all her problems, she’ll suddenly wake up one day and realize you’re the one?
Student: I mean… yeah, kind of. Isn’t that how it works? Show her what a good guy you are?
Coach: Let me ask you something. When you first met her, did you want to be her friend? Be honest.
Student: No… I was attracted to her right away.
Coach: But instead of showing that attraction directly, you played it safe. Now you’re stuck in friendship purgatory. Here’s what happens next if you don’t change something: you’ll keep torturing yourself watching her date other guys until she eventually finds one she wants to settle down with. Then you’ll either have to attend her wedding as her “best friend” or finally disappear from her life anyway.
Student: [defensive] What was I supposed to do? Just tell her I’m attracted to her?
Coach: YES! That’s exactly what you should have done. You want to know why those other guys are getting her attention? Because they have the balls to show their interest openly. They’re not pretending to be her friend while secretly hoping for more.
Student: But won’t that ruin our friendship?
Coach: What friendship? You’re living a lie. Every time you listen to her talk about other guys, every time you pretend to be just a caring friend, you’re being dishonest – with her and yourself. That’s not friendship, that’s cowardice.
Student: [slumps] Shit… when you put it that way…
Coach: You’ve been acting like an employee trying to earn enough good boy points to get promoted to boyfriend. But attraction doesn’t work that way. Women aren’t attracted to men who hide their intentions.
Student: So what do I do now? I mean, we’ve been friends for months…
Coach: You’ve got two options. One – keep doing what you’re doing and stay miserable. Two… (chapter continues)
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Getting Your Ex Back: The Hard Truth
Student: Coach, I fucked up bad. My girlfriend left me last week and I’ve been blowing up her phone like crazy. I’m talking texts, calls, emails… I even showed up at her place yesterday. I know I’m probably making things worse but I can’t help it. I just… I need her back, man. What do I do?
Coach: You know what women find most attractive in a man? His strength. His ability to stand firm when life gets rough. But right now? You’re doing the exact opposite. Every desperate text, every pleading voicemail, every surprise visit – you’re showing her nothing but weakness. And let me tell you something: there’s nothing – absolutely nothing – that kills attraction faster than a man begging for love. Women want to feel your strength, not your weakness!
Student: You don’t understand. I’m desperate here. I’ve been messaging her like crazy, telling her how much I miss her, how I’ll do anything to get her back. I even sent her this long-ass email explaining everything…
Coach: Let me stop you right there. How’s all that working out for you?
Student: [slumps in chair] She’s barely responding. When she does, it’s just like… one-word answers. But at least it’s something, right?
Coach: You’re doing exactly what most guys do – and exactly what drives women further away. Every desperate message you send is just confirming she made the right choice leaving.
Student: What the hell am I supposed to do then? Just sit here and do nothing while she slips away?
Coach: Think about what we’ve discussed about attraction. Are women attracted to men who fall apart without them? To guys who blow up their phone begging for another chance?
Student: I’m not falling apart, I just… I just want her to know how much she means to me.
Coach: No, you’re showing her how much you need her. There’s a difference. Big difference.
Student: What’s wrong with needing someone? Isn’t that what love is?
Coach: Love isn’t dependency. When you beg and plead, you’re telling her three things:
- You don’t respect yourself enough to maintain your dignity
- You’re too weak to handle life without her
- You have no other options
Is that the kind of man we’ve been talking about? The kind women are attracted to?
Student: [frustrated] No, but… fuck, man. I can’t eat, can’t sleep. I keep checking her social media every five minutes. It’s driving me crazy.
Coach: Here’s the brutal truth: you’ve already lost her. And every desperate text, every plea for another chance? You’re just digging the hole deeper. You’re just confirming that she made the right decision by leaving.
Student: What do you mean?
Coach: Look, think about what… (chapter continues)
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